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There was a time a few years ago when my job forced me to start figuring out how to manage people, not something I had any experience with and not something to which my INTJ personality was well-suited. I bought and read a number of books on managing technical people. It turns out that one of the best publishers of books on this topic is Microsoft Press. One of their books, Dynamics of Software Development, by Jim McCarthy, is now out of print (though it looks like it might be coming out in a second edition this year). It had a number of suggestions, one of which stuck with me: “Don’t flip the bozo bit“.

Let me explain what this means. A bit is a single binary option, one or zero, true or false. In any computer except the experimental quantum computers bits are always set to one or the other option. Now, McCarthy suggested that we all have internal “bits” when thinking about people or things which are set according to what we know about those people: male/female, known/stranger, friend/not friend, smart/dumb, wise/foolish, etc. He suggested that in business circles one bit determines whether or not we pay attention to other people: bozo/not bozo. The default setting, “not bozo”, means that we are prepared to listen to and react to the opinion of the other person. If they do or say something stupid we are tempted to “flip the bozo bit”, to decide they are bozos. From that point onward, we will discount their opinions. This is deadly. Once you flip the bozo bit, you tend to want to ignore everything the bozo says, and be annoyed and irritated if forced to pay attention to them, even, or especially, if they’re right.

Billions of people have flipped the bozo bit on George Bush. And let’s face it, he deserved it. BUT. The consequence of that is that even if he comes up with, or more likely is encouraged by smart people to support, good ideas, even if any of his policies have merit, billions of people are discounting those policies, discarding the idea that any of them have value, and actively resolving the cognitive dissonance that results by grabbing hold of any evidence or arguments that counter those of Mr. Bush, however ludicrous those arguments may be.

Hence, the same very well-meaning human rights leaders who dispaired at Bush’s isolationism when he was elected are now equally critical of any suggestion that the U.S. should interfere with the internal workings of very bad, messy places in the world. They’re on the wrong side on this one, implicitly siding with an extremely evil man, and from the best of motives are drawing the worst of conclusions. Just goes to show you how dangerous it is to elect a bozo your leader.

The NY Times Magazine on the weekend had a long, rambling essay about American empire, written by Michael Ignatieff. It’s as good a summary of the state of the world today as I’ve read recently. I tend to agree with most of what Ignatieff has to say. In brief, he argues that whether or not it is recognized by the American people, the U.S. has an empire today that is as real and tangible as any in the past. Under attack, it may well be right to attack back, but its success is ultimately going to rest on a lot more than military potency. If it can succeed in delivering democracy and peace not just to Iraq, but also to the rest of the Middle East as well, it may yet end up improving its own safety and its foreign image. Obviously, the fear is that Mr. Cheney and Co. only go halfway and leave a messy autocratic system in place in Iraq (and/or fail to resolve the Israeli/Palestinian mess) which would almost certainly make things worse, from both a security and foreign image perspective. As Ignatieff says,

“Paradoxically, reducing the size of the task does not reduce the risks. If an invasion of Iraq is delinked from Middle East peace, then all America will gain for victory in Iraq is more terror cells in the Muslim world. If America goes on to help the Palestinians achieve a state, the result will not win over those, like Osama bin Laden, who hate America for what it is. But at least it would address the rage of those who hate it for what it does.”

I got a glimmer of hope on the issue yesterday, from seeing this article suggesting that the U.S. may, indeed, be preparing to do more than remove Saddam Hussein.

I guess my current perspective comes down to this:

  • I really don’t like Bush, the way he was brought to power, the people he is friends with, his belief system, his hypocrisy, or his government.

  • I can tell the difference between a government and a country, and though I don’t like the U.S. government that doesn’t mean I don’t like the U.S. itself.

  • I kinda like the U.S., for many reasons, not least of which is that it serves as a beacon for the best educated thinkers of our time, has the will to improve itself, and the institutions to execute that will (even if it doesn’t always do it).

  • Given the choice between a war in Iraq going badly for the U.S., and a war in Iraq going well for the U.S., I think any sane outside observer would have to hope for the latter, even if the war itself is misguided.

  • Therefore I wish the U.S. well, while hoping and praying that they understand what they’re getting into.

  • And I’m not sure I could come up with a better alternative to war, given where they are. Though Saddam Hussein may not be the imminent threat the Bushies paint him as, there’s no doubt he’s a very bad man who should not be allowed to have bad weapons.

  • Of course there’s a lot of bad men who should not be allowed to have bad weapons, and there’s no way military power’s going to stop all of them, so the U.S. better figure out how to start winning friends again. Really helping democracy flourish in the Middle East would be a hugely important start.

  • I firmly believe that a world with one superpower is a safer world than one without a superpower at all. I know enough history to think that people who are romantic about the past are delusional.

Well, more points could follow, but you get the idea. One last thought: there’s a whole lot of hand-wringing in the world at the moment, but there aren’t a lot of suggestions as to what should be done. The U.S. right wing is, in my humble opinion, not the best source of ideas for how to fix the world. It’s high time the rest of us started offering alternatives. At the moment, the best alternatives seem to keep coming from the same few observers at Harper’s and the NY Times. Maybe we should stop thinking about the U.S. as a single entity and start working to support those alternative voices.

Star Wars Origami. Some people definitely need to have less free time.

Happy 2003! I’m back at work, though today is very quiet. It’s been a lovely break, but all good things must end.

After a day of recovery, Anne and I went to her parents’ place in Georgetown on Sunday for two nights. We had a really nice time, slightly marred by me coming down with a mild version of the 24-hour flu that’s been going around. Since I was feeling a bit under the weather we stayed in for the most part, except for a trip out to the Solid Wood Bed and Table Company store to look at possible dining room tables for Anne. They had some really beautiful stuff at quite reasonable prices.

On Tuesday we returned to the city and to our homes. I spent the afternoon watching the first few episodes of the first season of 24 from DVD. It’s an excellent show, very tense, and I’m really enjoying it.

New Year’s Eve was at Bruce and Steph’s, and featured Ager’s arrangement of Auld Lang Syne and a flaming haggis. Paul and Kelly showed up just before midnight with wee Jamie, who’s starting to fill in but is still really really small.

Europa UniversalisYesterday started really late and we took full opportunity of a final chance to be lazy. I started a campaign game of Europa Universalis as England, and was developing peacefully when the dastardly Scots and French decided to pick a fight. I held my border and grabbed Glasgow and Edinburgh, forcing a peace with Scotland, though it’s still pretty tense as to whether I can keep Calais from French hands despite a couple of significant naval victories in the Channel. Meanwhile Jean Cabot founded a trading post in Chicoutimi, but died at the outset of his second voyage, intended to explore Hudson’s Bay, so I’ve had to put my New World ambitions on hold for a while. Great fun.

Just a quick note to say Happy New Year to everyone… I hope you have a wonderful 2003!

2002 was very good to me. I’m giving thanks this year for many things, but chief among them my wonderful girlfriend Anne, who’s been making my life very happy for the last few months. I’m also grateful to have had the opportunity to travel in the past year. And to have great friends, and a wonderful family.

May you be as blessed.

Pulpit of Bath CathedralWe’re back! Anne and I got back to Canada on Friday after a wonderful week in England. The photos are here.

We started out on the 20th by picking up our rental car, a lovely little Peugeot, and driving to my grandmother’s place in Cuckfield. There, we settled into the tower room in the house at the top of the hill, before walking down to Gran’s to meet my parents who had just driven up from Chandler’s Ford. Sadly my father had come down with some sort of stomach flu (Mum had had it a few days before) so he quarantined himself upstairs for practically our whole stay to avoid giving it to Gran, who’s quite frail.

On the 21st, my cousin Olga came down from London for lunch. She’s been working in England for the past few months, but moved back to New York on the 22nd, which worked out well for us. Mum cooked up a Christmas feast, with turkey, potatoes, brussle sprouts, etc., and it was really, really good. My Dad’s cousin John Murray (“Jumrie”) Leslie also joined us, and after lunch, Olga, Jumrie, Anne and I went for a nice amble through the village and stopped in at the local church, where some cherubic children were rehearsing their Nativity play under their parents’ guidance. We nipped into the local pub for a quick pint on the way back.

The 22nd my Grandfather came down with the stomach flu, so my Mum changed her plans and drove back to Chandler’s Ford to help him out. Anne and I had a quiet day with Gran, played some Scrabble, and went for a short hike north through the outskirts of Cuckfield. As with most of southern England there are excellent public right of way hiking paths through many of the nearby fields, but with all the rain that had been falling recently there was an awful lot of mud. We trudged back to the tower and changed into less muddy clothes before dinner.

On the 23rd we drove down to Chandler’s Ford, stopping in Arundel to have lunch. Arundel’s a lovely town with a cathedral and a very impressive castle, sadly closed to visitors for the winter. We pressed on and got to Chandler’s Ford, where we stopped in briefly to drop off our things and pick up my mother to head up to Winchester for the carol service at Winchester Cathedral. We arrived early enough to get great seats, and the service was magical. I’ve been lucky enough to attend every year for the last few years, and it’s become an important part of Christmas for me.

StonehengeThe next day we left Chandler’s Ford to drive up to my Uncle’s in Gloucestershire. The original plan had been for us to take Grandpa, but as he hadn’t fully recovered from the flu he stayed behind with Mum. This saved us from a logistical nightmare of fitting him and his luggage into our little car on top of Anne’s and mine. We drove up past Stonehenge, which was unexpectedly (and rather severely) closed, with three guards to prevent us from using the car park. Undeterred, we parked in a lane a bit further along and walked back to take photos from over the fence. Afterwards we pressed on towards Salisbury, stopping briefly at the much less impressive Woodhenge (which has concrete stubs to mark where the wood used to be).

Just past Salisbury, we stopped at Figheldean to have lunch with Anne Dutton and her children (Owen & Sybilla) — Andrew Sedman, her husband, unfortunately had to work so couldn’t join us for lunch. Anne served us a lovely soup and a great selection of cheeses. Owen was very excited to have us there, and Sybilla, initially very shy, soon opened up and showed off a charming smile.

Onwards we pressed, stopping at Avebury to see our final Henge of the day, a very impressive one that goes almost all the way round the village. Then we completed our drive to Burleigh and arrived at my Uncle and Aunt’s just in time for a light dinner.

Christmas morning we went to church in Michinhampton, then opened presents back at the Howe. I got a number of lovely books, including a great anthology of humour from the New Yorker from Anne. The two of us received a pair of cookbooks from Olga and her family, which we will have to figure out how to share between us. Kate gave me a beautiful little tea set in a wicker basket. As we were opening presents, my Mum and my Grandpa drove up, and were able to stay for lunch and the afternoon before setting off back to Chandler’s Ford. Kate called, and Anne called her parents.

In the evening I went with James and John to the Michinhampton tennis courts (floodlit) for a few games of two on one. James wiped the floor with us.

BathOn Boxing Day, Anne and I drove down to Bath. We’d hoped to see the famous Roman Baths (after which the city is named) but they were closed. Instead, we looked through the magnificent cathedral and did some Boxing Day sales shopping before wandering back through the town’s lovely Georgian streets to the car.

Finally on the 27th we said goodbye to my Uncle’s family and got on the road to Heathrow. We had a pleasant trip home, with no rush, and have now basically got ourselves back onto Canadian time.

This afternoon we’re off to Anne’s parents’ in Georgetown for a couple of days. We’ll be back in Toronto for New Year’s at Bruce and Steph’s.

I hope you had as wonderful a Christmas as we did, and wish you all the best for 2003! And thank you for visiting my web site.

Anne and I are in the business lounge at the airport, waiting for our flight. We got cheap discounted tickets so they wouldn’t let me use my upgrades, but I still get into the lounge until February.

It’s been a great couple of days! The Lord of the Rings was… well, let’s just say you should go see it. Like I’m going to. Again.

Last night we had a client team outing to North 44 for truly excellent food. I had fois gras and the lamb chops, which were fabulous. I filled myself up with dessert, and was barely hungry again in time for lunch today, the University Club’s members-only Christmas lunch: lobster, rare roast beef, turkey, crab, and I think I remember a couple of vegetables, then great desserts. No dinner for me today, which works out well for getting my body onto UK time.

Well, this is probably it for my ability to update the blog over the holidays… Won’t be anywhere near a computer for a few days. Merry Christmas, everyone, and I hope to see you all in the New Year!

Happy Lord of the Rings Day! Enjoy this brilliant cartoon from yesterday’s PVPOnline.

A quick tip for anybody looking to link to my web site. If you find an entry you want to link to (as opposed to just linking to the current front page), click on the “link” text at the bottom of the entry. That will take you to the permanent home of that entry. You can then copy the URL for that page (with the #number stuff at the end) to get your browser to jump to that entry.

Monday, and a cold, freezing day it is too. Sunny and clear, as are all the coldest days in Toronto. Anne took her winter coat in for dry cleaning on Saturday, counting on our warm spell continuing for a couple of days, so she was very worried about turning into an icicle on the way to work this morning. Brrr…

Yesterday I cooked dinner for the Suspects: salad, rice, baked asparagus, chardonnay chicken (with leeks & mushrooms), and strawberry/rhubarb pie with candy cane ice cream for dessert. Yum!